ah, something about the holidays really seem to bring out the best and worst in us all... *sigh* I had hoped that the little personal spat in this thread that had been an accumulation of pent up feelings built up through quite a few incidences among members would be a fire that would've just burnt itself out (and for a bit, it seemed like it miraculously had! alas...) But it looks like we need to step in and remind everyone to keep the personal attacks off the boards. Criticize one another's actions/opinions all you want - go for it! - but
name-calling/ad hominems are against the forum rules no matter how you try to rationalize it.
Remember, UC is a place we want to be positive and engaging for ALL users - members and creators alike - so it's up to ALL of us to keep it that way. With that said, everyone's free to express themselves, but before pushing the post button to do so publicly, please take a moment to consider carefully what you've written, how and the tone in which you had done so, and how it may be perceived by others and affect those reading it because you will be held accountable. Simply put, just be responsible with the words you choose and how you decide to use 'em because it not only reflects on poorly yourself, but also on ALL of us here at UC so
consider this an issue of official warnings to all involved... com'on, y'all know better and are better than that so please, I kindly ask that everyone take a step back outta their feelings, grow up and move on.
Besides, it's the holidays ffs - y'all have said your piece and by now, everyone is very aware of what'cha all think about/feel towards one another as made quite loudly and repetitively clear...
so now's the time to just move right on along. It's clear that y'all aren't gunna kiss and make-up (nor is anyone expecting you to), but y'all do need to move tf on - we all do too - and please do consider blocking one another if that's what it'll take to do so. Now, let's move on together and focus on what we're all even here for to begin with - the deck, it's design and the current project at hand - and keep all other emotionally-charged personal matters for dinner with the family during this holiday season.
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To the creators: on behalf of UC, we apologize for the disturbance this quarrel between community members have caused in this thread. I know this is more than just an inconvenience, and you are thoroughly justified in being upset but I assure you that UC does not tolerate such behavior as that's not what we're all about here. As mods, we do the best we can to mediate between members as necessary to maintain a space for open dialog rooted in civility, courtesy and respect; but, as you can see, some of our members still need to be reminded of that from time to time as we all share responsibility for the community space we all are apart of. With that said, please accept our apologies for allowing all of this to have gotten so outta hand as it clearly had between members but I'm hopeful we can all move forward and provide you with constructive and/or collaborative feedback on your project. Thank you for enagaging and we greatly appreciate the efforts you've made to address members' questions, comments and concerns